Sunday, July 26, 2009

To Sleep Or Not To Sleep...

We've been bragging to folks lately that Casey is in such a good "phase" of her (short, thus far) life.

She's just such an incredibly happy girl, and we seldom hear crying. If anything, there might be a couple of moments in the day where a quite whimper signifies hunger, but once she's promised food, she patiently awaits it. Other than her "feed me now!" warning, we are literally dealing with a perfectly-behaved and contented baby.

Not only is she not fussing, but Casey's actually laughing and smiling at anyone who'll smile back, kicking her legs and flailing her arms when folks pay her attention, and playing independently (and for decent periods of time) on her tummy, back, sitting up, etc.

But... last evening and tonight were slightly less easy. I can't tell if Casey is teething or gassy or WHAT, but Tee Jay and I didn't get a lot of sleep last night. We even piggy-backed "baby duty" this morning while the other parent napped.

Tonight had all the makings for a similar experience when nothing would soothe the girl upstairs. I tried feeding her. We sat with her in our bed. The rocking chair was put to good use. A teething ring came out of the freezer. We briefly discussed the idea of letting Casey "cry it out," but though we try to make our own parenting decisions, we also give credence to Dr. Sears, who suggests that in the first six months of your baby's life, they are building trust with you and shouldn't be left to soothe themselves.

So down the stairs our girlie came, and she thankfully was content to play in her bouncy seat. Casey fell asleep at 10:00PM in this position, keeping a monster grip on her dangling toys...

3 comments:

Aunt Joan said...

Even through all the well-intentioned advice, YOU have to decide what is best for your baby and your situation. Yes, gas & teething are common culprits at this age, but they need to be addressed, not ignored (as in cry herself to sleep!). There is no harm in allowing Casey to sleep in the rocker where she is safe! Get some sleep yourselves, and everyone will be happier! Love ya....

Teacher Pursuits said...

We were just talking about "crying it out" TODAY. Its hard for me to think about Lilly crying it out at such a young age... but I don't imagine it gets any easier as they get a little older and more confident.

Heather M said...

she is too cute in that chair! I don't have any words of wisdom ... not having any children but I do know that I miss her already!

hopfully she will sleep tonight!